So, month 2 of 12 is officially in session, so I have a question:
How many of us are still saying you’re going on a “diet”?
Don’t you truly just hate that word?? I know I do. Every couple months or so, I would call myself going on a “diet”, and within about a week in, I would be giving it up and saying “I QUIT” to the entire concept. This was obviously not yielding any positive results. That is excactly why about two years ago, I decided to stop calling any change I made to my eating habits a “diet”. I just called it what it was; deciding what I was and was not going to eat anymore. I honestly can’t remember the last time I referenced my eating habits as a diet, and that has made all the difference in how I feel about what I choose and choose not to eat.
Everyone has their own way of tackling the number 1 resolution of a new year; losing weight and eating better. I found out the hard way a few interesting and critical things:
- I can’t lose weight the same way everyone else does, and I have to make the gym fun for me
- I am not going on a “chicken-brown rice- broccoli” diet of sorts, because it will piss me off and I’ll eat a pizza instead.
Instead of trying to lose weight like people I saw on TV or social media, and limiting myself to only 3 foods consistently everyday, what I decided to do was to implement simple, yet better habits about my health. Right now, I am currently weeening myself back off red meat (which is very rare that I eat it anyway) and I am working on letting go of pork as well. I promised myself to work out at least three times a week on strength training HIIT circuits. I feel like the more I implement things I enjoy doing, the more it will not feel like a chore or such an important obligation that I don’t want to make a valid commitment to it.
Now, when I commit to a specific change in the way I eat, I also never count out the things I love most; which was something I did before (totally elimiinate things I thoroughly enjoyed). Now, I continue to eat things I love, but in moderation.
For example, I love Pepsi. I don’t know if there is anyone or anything that will have me not like or stop drinking it. In previous attempts at weight loss, I attempted to quit drinking Pepsi cold turkey, but it never worked and I found myself frustrated and just quitting. Now, I have developed a new attitude towards weight loss and now, instead of quitting it cold turkey, I just drink it in moderation.
The overall lesson I learned from this experience is that your life is what you make it, and whatever you choose to do is your business. If you don’t want to lose weight, then dont. If you do want to lose weight, don’t make it a hassle. Turn it into something you are going to enjoy doing; if not, you will never actually have fun or feel good about your weight loss.