“I don’t want to be pitied, or coddled. I am not looking for sympathy. I am only accepting accountability; action complementing words. I don’t want a partner absent of flaws; I want to plant a seed to blossom and grow.” – Whit🖤
Category: Relationships
….But the Greatest of Them All is LOVE.
So what I lean on is that if I continue to focus on how consistent I am in how I love others, and myself, love will never fail. I will continue staying mindful in prayer regarding the discernment for love, and the consistency I need in myself to succeed. Love will always prevail if it is based on how God shows us love everyday.
Food for Thought.
Don’t criticize or question why a person still loves someone who may have hurt them. It’s not the same love. Sometimes it’s hard to let go of someone you’ve loved for so long, but the love can change. They don’t love them the same; they just love them differently. And that’s ok… 🖤
Is Marriage a “One and Done” Concept for Me?
What I have come up with is that maybe getting married a second time may never be what I want again. Marriage will be a “one and done” experience in my lifetime, and I may have to learn to be ok with that.
Happy Birthday.
Whitney, I bet the world would be stunned if you told them you didn’t think you’d make it to this day. But you did. This year you found out, you were flawed like hell. You’re not that great of a person, and you can’t make things perfect. You can’t control anything except your actions and…
Obligation, Acceptance and Knowing the Difference
A couple of weeks ago, I was watching an episode of Lovecraft Country. I heard a quote that sent a shock through my body about family. It resonated with me because it identified the key differences between the obligation and acceptance of the concept of the idea of families and how we view them. It…
Do Not Tolerate Anything Less Than in Love
Today I listened to my father discuss tolerance during church today. He made a very interesting point in how it related to love. He said that tolerance is closely related to love. When he said this, he referenced 1Corinthians 13:7. That particular verse says this: It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things…
A Little Sunday Funday Photoshoot
My sister wanted me to take some pictures of her and my nephews this past weekend. I’m nowhere near professional status, but I took her up on the offer to improve my photography game. While I thoroughly enjoyed photographing my little homies (no matter how moody they were 😂), I think my absolute favorites were…
The Conversations No One Likes to Have
Why is it so hard for people to have tough conversations? Sure; they’re annoying, draining and sometimes exhausting. But, how do two adults go through life without having tough conversations? How can you live life and never sit down and someone be the bigger person and not address the proverbial “elephant in the room”? I’m…
Who Am I?
Who Am I? Who Are You? The million-dollar question that is expected to have the most profound answer; or is it? I’ve been living life all wrong. I’ve been living my life thinking that I had to have some prophetic and deep, thought-provoking answer to this question when asked. Like, when someone asks you to…
Write, Live and Love 