Food for Thought.

Don’t criticize or question why a person still loves someone who may have hurt them. It’s not the same love. Sometimes it’s hard to let go of someone you’ve loved for so long, but the love can change. They don’t love them the same; they just love them differently. And that’s ok… 🖤

How Do you Love Yourself?

“How we love ourselves is how we show people how to love us…..” I can’t remember who said this and where I saw it, but it’s something that’s been on my mind all week. It’s amazing how much we neglect to love ourselves, and then expect people to love us unconditionally. If we have not…

Why Aren’t We All Still Working Remotely?

The pandemic brought a lot of truth to the world about America. Mainly the fact that some things can be done, and with little effort. One thing I think all working professionals could appreciate; despite the constant face time on Zoom, was the ability to work remotely from their offices. I can personally say that…

How Would YOU Spend Your Time?

If you knew the end was coming, how would you make the most of the time you have left? This question was posed on the first episode of the final season of one of my favorite shows, Insecure.  The new episode premiered on October 24, 2021 and just as I expected, it did not disappoint….

#WhitWritesHerNovel : The Home Stretch and What’s Next

So, I will be participating in NaNoWriMo this year. This will be my…….sixth consecutive year doing it. This one is a little bittersweet though, because it will be my last one for a while; until I find the inspiration for a new venture. I am preparing to start the final installment of my Playing with…

Love Yourself….MORE.

Last year, around this time; I wrote a post on how to love yourself . Today, after a long struggle and journey towards learning to love myself (and still working towards it), I am vowing to lean into….more. Loving myself more. Healing myself more. Feeling more. Doing more. I’m trying to find the ways to…

Is Marriage a “One and Done” Concept for Me?

What I have come up with is that maybe getting married a second time may never be what I want again. Marriage will be a “one and done” experience in my lifetime, and I may have to learn to be ok with that.

A Personal Vent Session

Im a quiet person. I don’t divulge a lot of feelings. I typically keep them inside and I cover up how I feel by smiling, laughing; being the “Whit” everyone knows and loves. And for the most part I don’t mind, because I need the smiles and laughter sometimes. But today; today, I woke up…

Peace, Pain, Pleasure

Be the peace of her soul, Erase the pain of her scars, Pleasure her spirit And love will follow…