REPOST: The Toxic Optimist

So I frequently listen to The Friend Zone podcast, and just like every episode, it gave me shocking insight on a topic that I have never thought about: toxic positivity. They discussed how a Facebook post led to a comment talking about how positivity can be toxic for people; how the mere notion of giving…

REPOST: Hurt

What do you do when you have been genuinely hurt, and you don’t have any possible thing left to give anymore…?

2017 Weekly Recap: Essay #1, The Intro

So, I stumbled upon a challenge that I decided to try, in an effort to keep my love for writing alive and continue to improve on it at least on a weekly basis.  The challenge is called #52essays2017, which means I will be writing an essay a week about myself and all of the fun…

The Christmas Tag!!!

“Chestnuts roasting, on an open fire……” 🙂 So, today I’m feeling real holly and jolly today (possibly because of the Christmas  party we are having at work today).  As an extension of my holiday cheer, I am going to do the Christmas tag for you all!  I will have the questions down at the bottom…

Back Burner Blues

Have you ever noticed how hard you work for the ones you love; so hard that sometimes you don’t put that same energy into yourself?  This is a disease I like to call “putting yourself on the back burner.”  I remember seeing my mom do it several times with my sister and I growing up;…

Loyalty: The Gift We Give Too Easily. 

  While I was listening to one of my favorite podcasts, The Friend Zone, I heard a really deep question that had to make me think for a while today.  The topic of discussion was around loyalty and this question really resonated with me on many levels.  I decided to gather my thoughts and write my own…

Sometimes You Can’t Please Everyone

I saw this today and felt the need to share.  There are too many times in life that I feel this way, but sometimes I have to remind myself that I am not always going to be someone’s cup of tea; and sometimes, that’s ok.  I enjoy being a unique individual, I think that’s what makes…

Empty

So, one of the blogs I follow throws out one-word prompts occasionally to help writers.  One of the prompts was “Empty”.  I think of this, and realize that it is a pretty good description of myself right now. Lately, I’ve been feeling like I have nothing left to give.  I feel like I’m putting forth…

Just Call Me Picasso! 

I recently had my first Painting with a Twist experience.  Considering the amount of wine I drank, my painting looks pretty darn awesome! 🙂   I even got to wear the “Painting Virgin” apron, since it was my first time doing a Painting with a Twist session! 🙂       

Friends (of the opposite sex): How Many of us Have Them?

I saw an interesting Twitter conversation the other day, regarding married or involved couples, who have friends of the opposite sex.  It was something I definitely wanted to shed some light on and thought it would be an interesting for me to write about.  The question that arose was, is having friends of the opposite…