Don’t criticize or question why a person still loves someone who may have hurt them. It’s not the same love. Sometimes it’s hard to let go of someone you’ve loved for so long, but the love can change. They don’t love them the same; they just love them differently. And that’s ok… 🖤
Category: Lifestyle
Why Aren’t We All Still Working Remotely?
The pandemic brought a lot of truth to the world about America. Mainly the fact that some things can be done, and with little effort. One thing I think all working professionals could appreciate; despite the constant face time on Zoom, was the ability to work remotely from their offices. I can personally say that…
How Would YOU Spend Your Time?
If you knew the end was coming, how would you make the most of the time you have left? This question was posed on the first episode of the final season of one of my favorite shows, Insecure. The new episode premiered on October 24, 2021 and just as I expected, it did not disappoint….
Is Marriage a “One and Done” Concept for Me?
What I have come up with is that maybe getting married a second time may never be what I want again. Marriage will be a “one and done” experience in my lifetime, and I may have to learn to be ok with that.
A Personal Vent Session
Im a quiet person. I don’t divulge a lot of feelings. I typically keep them inside and I cover up how I feel by smiling, laughing; being the “Whit” everyone knows and loves. And for the most part I don’t mind, because I need the smiles and laughter sometimes. But today; today, I woke up…
New Chapter Begins…And an Old Chapter Ends
So, I’ve been away for a little bit; but for good reason. I’ve began a new chapter in life, and what better time than now to celebrate it? 🙂 So possibly the biggest news of the year was that I purchased my first home! I’m very excited and it was a very long, tedious task….
My Past Does Not Dictate Who I Am Today
“My past does not dictate who I am or have become today.” This quote popped in my head this morning and prompted me to write some things down. This month has been very emotional; a lot more than I thought it would be. But as I reflect on what has caused these emotions, I also…
Know Your Worth, and Give it to People Who Deserve it.
When does your heart tell you it’s time to stop? And at what point do you listen? Sometimes, it doesn’t pay to be nice; especially if you’re nice to the wrong people. The people who don’t appreciate your kindness. The people who can’t give you what you give them. So when do you finally say…
The Best Love
Lately I’ve been feeling pretty good about myself. I’ve made attempts to smile more, stress less and prepare to embark on a new chapter in my life. It has not always been easy, but I feel like my pain will turn itself into love and reward soon. I’m continuing to build myself up on affirmations…
The Pain is Still There
Sometimes, I still cry. Sometimes I see something, read something; and it triggers a memory. Good memories piss me off; because they ended up never meaning anything in the first place. Bad memories piss me off because they were always bad. Sometimes I’d rather hate you then to see you happy; block your number, your…
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