Happy Birthday.

Advertisements Whitney, I bet the world would be stunned if you told them you didn’t think you’d make it to this day. But you did. This year you found out, you were flawed like hell. You’re not that great of a person, and you can’t make things perfect. You can’t control anything except your actionsContinue reading “Happy Birthday.”

Ones You Can Depend On, and The One who Can Depend on You

Advertisements Q: Am I reliable? How so or how not so? Do you know a person that immediately comes to mind that you know you can rely on when times are hard and you need someone in your corner?  I have a few people that I hold dear to my heart that are the mostContinue reading “Ones You Can Depend On, and The One who Can Depend on You”

Good Friends or Bad Friends; Which One are You?

Advertisements So, im still on my #50Days50Questions journey, and I came across a question that I felt compelled to discuss, since it has become somewhat of a hot topic in my life currently. Here is the question. Am I a good friend? How so or not so? I could be lying to myself; however, IContinue reading “Good Friends or Bad Friends; Which One are You?”

Be Mindful of the Energy you Put Into How Others Think of You

Advertisements Do I care about what others are thinking about me? The short answer is this: NO. When I was younger, I was very self-conscious and was very concerned with how others perceived me and what people thought of me.  I have always tried to be a good person and a good friend to everyoneContinue reading “Be Mindful of the Energy you Put Into How Others Think of You”

Self-Care Sunday: Removing Toxic People from Your Life 

Advertisements When you feel like there is an abundance of negativity weighing you down, sometimes you have to look to the people around you and determine if they are bringing toxic vibes to your life.  If you find that they are, removing them is always the best option.  Sometimes, this may include removing people closestContinue reading “Self-Care Sunday: Removing Toxic People from Your Life “

Sipping Tea with the Enemy…I Mean Ex! A Lesson in Forgiveness…

Advertisements *REBLOG* Still a very interesting question…and one of the most interesting movie endings I’ve seen in a while!

REPOST: Who’s in Your Circle? 

Advertisements The older I get, the more I realize that keeping good people around me is one of the keys to a happy and successful life.  I’ve learned that if you don’t have a solid circle of friends who are not on your level and striving to get better, then you don’t really need themContinue reading “REPOST: Who’s in Your Circle? “

Finding Our Way Back.

Advertisements I’ve grown to understand that best friends, REAL best friends, are pretty hard to come by.  With that being said, I’m confident that my best friend is possibly the best “best friend” in the world, and I dare anyone to challenge me on it.  Some people say they never thought they would be thisContinue reading “Finding Our Way Back.”

Don’t Put Others Down When They Need You Most

Advertisements A quick PSA that has been on my heart: Sometimes, people need a small village of loved ones who they lean on for support, guidance and love.  It’s not a bad thing to want to have someone you can truly vent to; someone who doesn’t judge, doesn’t make assumptions or opinions; and someone whoContinue reading “Don’t Put Others Down When They Need You Most”

#InsecureHBO: The Recap!

Advertisements Ok, so THANK YOU Issa Rae for making a show that speaks to so many other aspects of my life! I was able to finally watch Insecure yesterday (because trying to find access to someone’s HBOGO has been a bitch) on YouTube (once again, THANK YOU).  Word to the wise, if you watch it at work,Continue reading “#InsecureHBO: The Recap!”