How to Stay Young When Your Relationship is Feeling Old

Advertisements Being married for 5 years thus far has taught me a lot about myself, my spouse and the idea of marriage as a whole.  The one thing I have learned is that there are times when you can feel quite old in your relationship sometimes, and it is not the best feeling by anyContinue reading “How to Stay Young When Your Relationship is Feeling Old”

A Look Beyond the Titles

Advertisements Mother.  Wife.  Supervisor.  Employee.  Provider.  There are so many times when women who fall into these categories are defined by these words.  We are characterized, classified and described with these words and at times, our identity and worth is sometimes only valued based on these things.  For five years, I have had the pleausreContinue reading “A Look Beyond the Titles”

Be Mindful of the Energy you Put Into How Others Think of You

Advertisements Do I care about what others are thinking about me? The short answer is this: NO. When I was younger, I was very self-conscious and was very concerned with how others perceived me and what people thought of me.  I have always tried to be a good person and a good friend to everyoneContinue reading “Be Mindful of the Energy you Put Into How Others Think of You”

NEW RELEASE- From A Lover’s Mouth

Advertisements I’m pleased to announce my second published book, a collection of poetry titled, From a Lover’s Mouth!!   Take a trip down lover’s lane, with a collection of poetry that highlights some of the highs and lows of one of life’s most complex avenues; love. In this short compilation, Whitney explores some of the experiences anyoneContinue reading “NEW RELEASE- From A Lover’s Mouth”

Sipping Tea with the Enemy…I Mean Ex! A Lesson in Forgiveness…

Advertisements *REBLOG* Still a very interesting question…and one of the most interesting movie endings I’ve seen in a while!

Me Time

Advertisements For the first time in possibly ever (with the exception of the 5 days I took out of the country, I took an entire week and a half off from my job and my adulting responsibilities (insert shock and *gasp*).  I didn’t have any life-threatening reason why I did it (unless you count myContinue reading “Me Time”


Advertisements Well, this week’s essay definitely  won’t be as good as others.  It won’t be my best work.  It will be short, and it probably won’t make a lick of sense; which is why I decided to name it “Ramblings”.  With everything going on, I didn’t really have time to separate my thoughts and chooseContinue reading “Ramblings.”

Who’s to Blame in the Cheating Game?


When it’s Time to Upgrade Your Status from #Bae to #Wifey 

Advertisements I believe that in some way, all women are similar in one regard when it comes to relationships; everything is going pretty well, and then all of a sudden, a couple years down the line, they start to get “the itch”. What is the itch you say?  The #Upgrade itch.  I mean picture it;Continue reading “When it’s Time to Upgrade Your Status from #Bae to #Wifey “