Don’t criticize or question why a person still loves someone who may have hurt them. It’s not the same love. Sometimes it’s hard to let go of someone you’ve loved for so long, but the love can change. They don’t love them the same; they just love them differently. And that’s ok… 🖤
Tag: relationship
The Conversations No One Likes to Have
Why is it so hard for people to have tough conversations? Sure; they’re annoying, draining and sometimes exhausting. But, how do two adults go through life without having tough conversations? How can you live life and never sit down and someone be the bigger person and not address the proverbial “elephant in the room”? I’m…
How to Stay Young When Your Relationship is Feeling Old
Being married for 5 years thus far has taught me a lot about myself, my spouse and the idea of marriage as a whole. The one thing I have learned is that there are times when you can feel quite old in your relationship sometimes, and it is not the best feeling by any means….
A Look Beyond the Titles
Mother. Wife. Supervisor. Employee. Provider. There are so many times when women who fall into these categories are defined by these words. We are characterized, classified and described with these words and at times, our identity and worth is sometimes only valued based on these things. For five years, I have had the pleausre of…
Be Mindful of the Energy you Put Into How Others Think of You
Do I care about what others are thinking about me? The short answer is this: NO. When I was younger, I was very self-conscious and was very concerned with how others perceived me and what people thought of me. I have always tried to be a good person and a good friend to everyone I…
NEW RELEASE- From A Lover’s Mouth
I’m pleased to announce my second published book, a collection of poetry titled, From a Lover’s Mouth!! Take a trip down lover’s lane, with a collection of poetry that highlights some of the highs and lows of one of life’s most complex avenues; love. In this short compilation, Whitney explores some of the experiences anyone can…
Sipping Tea with the Enemy…I Mean Ex! A Lesson in Forgiveness…
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So I just got done watching the movie, Black Coffee on BET. The movie was quite interesting; but the part that caught my attention the most was the end. I will explain it a little: Robert was dating Mita at the beginning of the movie. Well, Robert lost…
Me Time
For the first time in possibly ever (with the exception of the 5 days I took out of the country, I took an entire week and a half off from my job and my adulting responsibilities (insert shock and *gasp*). I didn’t have any life-threatening reason why I did it (unless you count my slowly…
Ramblings.
Well, this week’s essay definitely won’t be as good as others. It won’t be my best work. It will be short, and it probably won’t make a lick of sense; which is why I decided to name it “Ramblings”. With everything going on, I didn’t really have time to separate my thoughts and choose a…
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