Don’t criticize or question why a person still loves someone who may have hurt them. It’s not the same love. Sometimes it’s hard to let go of someone you’ve loved for so long, but the love can change. They don’t love them the same; they just love them differently. And that’s ok… 🖤
Tag: love
How Do you Love Yourself?
“How we love ourselves is how we show people how to love us…..” I can’t remember who said this and where I saw it, but it’s something that’s been on my mind all week. It’s amazing how much we neglect to love ourselves, and then expect people to love us unconditionally. If we have not…
Love Yourself….MORE.
Last year, around this time; I wrote a post on how to love yourself . Today, after a long struggle and journey towards learning to love myself (and still working towards it), I am vowing to lean into….more. Loving myself more. Healing myself more. Feeling more. Doing more. I’m trying to find the ways to…
Is Marriage a “One and Done” Concept for Me?
What I have come up with is that maybe getting married a second time may never be what I want again. Marriage will be a “one and done” experience in my lifetime, and I may have to learn to be ok with that.
Peace, Pain, Pleasure
Be the peace of her soul, Erase the pain of her scars, Pleasure her spirit And love will follow…
The Best Love
Lately I’ve been feeling pretty good about myself. I’ve made attempts to smile more, stress less and prepare to embark on a new chapter in my life. It has not always been easy, but I feel like my pain will turn itself into love and reward soon. I’m continuing to build myself up on affirmations…
The Pain is Still There
Sometimes, I still cry. Sometimes I see something, read something; and it triggers a memory. Good memories piss me off; because they ended up never meaning anything in the first place. Bad memories piss me off because they were always bad. Sometimes I’d rather hate you then to see you happy; block your number, your…
Unapologetic Freedom
How does it feel when you finally let yourself be free? I mean, really and truly free? Free of judgementFree of inhibitionFree of restraintFree of hesitationFree of any and everything that makes you “play it safe” Just for one moment, one point in my life; I want to feel that freedom. The unapologetic freedom. The…
Dear 2020..
(A letter to the year that I thought would break me…) You were not what I expected. I realized that I didn’t want you. As the year progressed, you did not meet my expectations. You brought me pain. You brought heartache. You brought death. You brought tauma. You brought unspeakable disaster. You brought pandemic. You…
Breathing; For What it’s Worth.
Sometimes, even breathing is hard. The simple task of taking an inhale can be the toughest thing you think you can do. The world feels like it’s sitting on our chests these days; nothing may be going right. Everything feels hopeless. Nothing is going right and despite your best efforts to feel good, you just…
Write, Live and Love 