“Nothing real can be threatened, true love breathes salvation back into me. With every tear came redemption, […]

This is a post I wrote on a previous blog last year that I wanted to share with you all.  Check out my other blog profile http://www.blogher.com/myprofile/wit-nee for more posts!!

I have to ask this question….because throughout the last  2 years just about, I have been utterly perplexed at this “craze” amongst women….

What exactly are the benefits of being someone’s side chick? I have heard many reasons such as the thrill of no strings, the lack of commitment to a  particular role, getting an abundance of gifts for no particular reason at all.  Quite frankly, I feel it is a horrible role to play as a woman, and I don’t understand the joy a woman gets out of being a side chick for a man.