When Someone Shows you Who They Are…

Why is this such a hard concept for us to accept?? Why are people inclined to indirectly call people liars when they tell or show you who they are? Maya Angelou is famous for this particular quote: Plain and simple; if someone is telling you something about themselves, you owe it to them and yourself…

Obligation, Acceptance and Knowing the Difference

A couple of weeks ago, I was watching an episode of Lovecraft Country. I heard a quote that sent a shock through my body about family. It resonated with me because it identified the key differences between the obligation and acceptance of the concept of the idea of families and how we view them. It…

Part 2: Accept Who You Are

To read the posts previous to this, please click the link for the A Journey Through Self and Part 1 posts! 🙂 In my first post, I talked about how I acknowledge currently. I feel like acknowledging an issue and actually accepting it as a reality are two very different things; two things that I…

Atonement and Apologies: Why they MUST Go Hand in Hand

When I was younger; I didn’t understand the concept of being accountable for wrong actions. I was told that I needed to apologize, but it wasn’t until I was older that I learned the importance of a behavior change that actually accommodates the apology. When dealing in the spaces of consequences and mistakes, apologies are…